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Africats Method: Becoming Smarter With Brainwave Entrainment

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If you are like most people, then you probably have more than one reason for meditating. A lot of people meditate because they want more clarity in their life, while others meditate so that they’ll be able to find inner peace. While these are both great reasons to meditate, you can get meditation to do so much more. Brainwave entrainment is a supplemental meditation exercise that helps synchronize with your brainwaves. When the sounds provided by brainwave entrainment synchronize with your brainwaves, you’ll be able to get much more out of your meditation sessions. So, how can you be smarter with brainwave entrainment?

Brainwave entrainment is broken down into three main categories:

  • Monaural beats,
  • Binaural beats, and
  • Isochronic beats.

The reason that brainwave entrainment was broken down into these three categories is because each of these three kinds of beats have different frequencies. As you might have predicted, each of these three beats also helps you get more out of your meditation sessions.

Binaural beats is the category of brainwave entrainment you want to focus on if your goal is to become smarter. Binaural beats are specially formulated sound waves that increase your ability to retain information. If your job requires you to do a lot of memorization, listening to binaural beats is a great way to increase your effectiveness. Many people are very smart, but they just require a stimuli in order to bring it out. If you always thought that you weren’t reaching your full mental potential, then listening to  binaural beats is a wonderful exercise to try. :)

Where To Find Brainwave Entrainment Tracks

If you think that binaural beats is something that you would like to try, you should purchase some tracks online. There are many websites available that offer these tracks for very affordable prices. It is important to read the reviews associated with each track before you end up purchasing them. This way, you’ll be able to determine whether or not they are effective. When reading the reviews, it’s important to take the cumulative opinion of the track into consideration. If a track gets on negative comment, don’t immediately discount it. Sometimes certain people don’t respond well to certain tracks and it could just be a “fluke” review.

Also, make sure that you have a good audio system in place so that you’ll be able to hear the binaural beats as they were intended to be heard. If your audio system produces fuzzy or low quality sound, it could inhibit your chances of increasing your intelligence. I personally like Bose headphones. They truly rock!

Now that you know more about binaural beats and their ability to increase your mental capacity, you should think about incorporating this practice into your daily meditation session. Incorporating binaural beats into your meditation session is very easy and doesn’t take up any more time than a regular meditation session. Just play the binaural beats in the background when you’re meditating and you should be able to get much more out of your meditation session and your day.

Some Cool Meditation Resources To Check Out

http://www.dmoz.org/Health/Alternative/Meditation/

Deepak Chopra Meditation Videos

BBC feature on meditation

How to Seduce a Fashionista, the Africats.org Way

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Women are fashionista by nature…

Men are generally used to having somebody else choose their clothes for them or fix them up. In fact, women are usually the ones who ensure that their partners look presentable and clean before they go out together. Since women are fashionistas by nature and are always concerned about their partner’s looks, you might want to learn how to dress yourself up in order to seduce one of these women with ease. Here are some tips to help you out:

  • Act the Part.

First and foremost, a gentleman who is dressed well generally exudes a distinctive vibe of success. Women find successful men very attractive, so aim to wear polished shoes and great accessories, like a fashionable watch, along with your clothes. If you look put together, you will look successful – it’s as simple as that.

  • Point Out Good Taste.

There is one subtle advantage that comes with being well-dressed: men who know what good clothes entail are more likely to truly appreciate women’s clothes, too. Do you know how long women take to pick out outfits before going out? Some women even go shopping especially for an occasion, so it can be frustrating if the men that they dress up for don’t even notice the effort that they put into their fashion sense. So, make sure to compliment women on their clothes every now and then. They will definitely appreciate it. Still not convinced, take this dating advice.

  • Look Brag-Worthy.

The main reason why women love men with fashionable taste, though, is that they will have exclusive bragging rights to them. That’s right. Women love having a boyfriend or a husband who dresses like a model because they get to flaunt their dapper partner to their friends, neighbors and relatives. Face it: women always want to look great. Well, having somebody by their side who always looks great, as well, will do wonders for their ego.

This is why looks matter so much. Especially if you’re dating an older woman. If you want to seduce a good-looking and presentable fashionista, you need to know that these women will only be attracted to men with the same level of fashion sense as them. As they say, birds of the same feather flock together. So, if you preen yourself regularly, you are more likely to win over the kind of woman who looks great at all times.

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…so look your best all the time.

If you need help picking out fail-safe pieces for your wardrobe, then you should know that you can always depend on a striped necktie with subtle patterns. These kinds of ties do not just command attention; they also command respect. Want to know what your tie says about you? Find out here. The best part is that they come in different patterns and colors, so you can find one to suit any season or occasion. A pinstripe tie would be a good staple choice, as well.

In today’s fashionable world, women aren’t the only ones who have to strive to look their very best anymore. Men are expected to look stylish, too. Fortunately, the right clothes won’t just make you look great; they will also help you move with confidence and succeed at winning your dream girl over at the same time.

Girl Friend to Girlfriend: The Road from Friendship to Romance

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Hello Africats members and readers! Thank you for all your emails which had nothing but good words for the site. We hope you enjoy reading every article we post. We’re always glad to help you improve your love life and relationships.

I’ve always been a fan of romantic comedy flicks and I noticed that most of the rom-coms I’ve seen revolved around how a girl and a guy’s friendship flourish into a romantic relationship. So I’ve decided to write about it.

We’ve seen it all in Hollywood: friends falling for each other and becoming lovers in the end. Film and TV make it look so easy, so ideal, and quite honestly, so misleading – feeding us the idea that the road from friendship to romance is one filled with golden roses and picturesque happy ever after with kisses in the sunsets.

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Girl friend or girlfriend? Better make your mind soon!

In reality, it has tons of awkward moments, painful rejections, unrequited love, and maybe even unsaid emotions. But how do you deal with it actually? How you react to this newfound feeling for someone you’ve only seen as a friend your entire life makes all the difference in how you are to deal with the rest of this situation.

The moment you realize you are indeed falling for her, you’ve got to make up your mind. At this point, it is very important not to do or say or give the slightest hint to her. You have to decide whether you will choose to ignore this or take the risk. Doing anything about it when you’re less than sure will be very detrimental to your friendship. She might end up hating you for it! So, is it a go or no? Is it worth the risk of losing the friendship? Do you realize how much things will change once you admit to her that you want to try dating with her? Are you willing to embrace those changes? What if she thinks it’s a preposterous idea and she rejects you – can you take it?

If you decide to go for it, then by all means my mighty knight, ride into the cruel world of uncertainty.

If you decide to just keep things the way they are, then sit down, drink a few beers until you forget about the feeling and live like it never happened.

Pursuing your best girl-friend does not mean jumping the gun after your life-changing realization. You’re going to scare her away, silly! Take time to test the waters – ask hypothetical questions, take her out on solo dates WITHOUT going overboard romantic, and dress up a little fancier for her. She will notice the difference but will not repel it, so you have both the time and the chance to gauge how she would react the moment you tell her the mad truth. By the way, you might want to see this funny blog post on attraction.

If she reacts less than desired – thinks you’re weird for doing it, gets awkward at the thought of looking like a couple, etc – then you may have to back it down soldier. That, or you give her more time to be used to a ‘sweeter’ you. But don’t give her misleading statements just yet. The last thing you want is confuse her and then scare her away. Only you can tell how well-receiving she is to a new you. You are getting her used to seeing you differently: as a man and not as a buddy. You might also want to play some mind games with her to tell whether or not she’s interested.

And when she finally gets the idea, maybe then you could tell her, like a real gentleman, of your intentions and feelings. It can only end three ways anyway:

  • Yes
  • No
  • Not yet

The secret to getting through it successfully is to give her time; rushing it would end up in you losing both the girl and the friend. And besides, even if a no, if you’ve done it right, you’ll still end up being great friends afterwards!

- Africats

P.S.

You might find this helpful (or not!).

Working Out and How It Benefits Your Dating Life

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Warm welcome from Africats.org!

So we’ve all practically mastered the benefits of regular exercise to the body. It keeps our bodies in condition, makes our bodies look great and feel great, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.

But did you men know that apart from there rather obvious and first hand benefits, exercising can help give your dating life a boost too? In so many ways, sire, working out whether at the local gym or doing it independently, can greatly help whatever advances you’re trying to achieve in your dating life. If you already have a girlfriend, then this is a must read. If you don’t have one, try the girlfriend finding tips here.

Workouts not just improve physique but also relationships.

Workouts not just improve physique but also relationships.

Here are just some of the less than obvious benefits that result from regular exercise:

  • Working out decreases your stress hormones therefore making you generally happier. Ever wonder why girls look glowing and serene and peaceful after a workout? That is because there is a significant boost in their happy hormones level and a drop in the stress-causing ones. The sweating and the healthy heart pumping that comes from a workout is all that is to be blamed for it. And when you’re stress-free, your face shows a happier outlook and thus makes you less cranky at dates. It makes you an easier person to be with on a date, and that’s always a good point for any guy (or girl).
  • Working out helps clear your skin. With an improved hormonal balance, your skin gets better protection from stress-induced breakouts. On top of that, regular sweating helps wash out your pores of dirt and bacteria that clogs them. Also, since workout improves your heart pumping, there is also a better circulation of blood and oxygen to the cells in your body. And you know what that means? Your skin cells are generally healthier and clearer.
  • Working out boosts your self confidence. Even a few pushups do a great deal of wonder to a man’s ego. Doing it regularly will make you feel stronger and, well, more masculine. And that’s such a turn on. It’s not even the toned biceps that lure women; it’s the swing in your step, the change in how you walk (chest-out-stomach-in) and your general demeanor that brings in them ladies.
  • Workout sessions help you meet girls. Whether you go to a local gym or jog every day, going out for a workout sesh will improve your chances at meeting women. That does not count your Zumba at home lessons though.
Lift those weights!

Lift those weights!

  • Workout gives you more stamina for sex. Sexual intercourse requires practically the same amount of energy and muscle work as regular workout. Because your body can handle so much more from all the cardio and weight lifting you’ve been doing, your body can handle longer intercourses. For more specific exercises on how to improve your sex life, read this. And, do I even have to explain why that is wonderfully good for your dating life? I think not too.

Workouts not just gives you a body that’s to-die-for, it also helps you improve your relationships. So go ahead and venture out into the world of regular exercise. Ditch your couch potato-ing and go for a healthier activity! Find the workout that best suits you, make time for it regularly, and see all the wonders it gives your body and dating life.

Cougar Dating – An Africats.org Exclusive!

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Much of the Africats Method is developed with our core audience in mind (more details here). Many of our clients like to date mature women, and so we are releasing this mini-guide on Cougar Dating. I hope you enjoy this little guide. :)

Cougar (n.), a woman who’s well above 35, hot, single and looking to date men in their 20’s; single or divorced; the woman and not the girl.
Cougar bait (n.) a young, attractive guy in his 20s that the cougars are looking to date

My first introduction into what ‘cougar’ meant other than the big cat on the National Geographic was Stifler’s mom on the American Pie movie series, and then followed by the 2003 song by Fountains of Wayne, Stacy’s Mom. And then Demi Moore dated and married Ashton Kutcher. And then Courtney Cox produced and starred in CougarTown. And then the rest is mostly Hollywood history.

But cougars, to my surprise, are not some Hollywood myth. They are as real as can be and they probably are in every bar and social event in the city looking to hunt for their cougar bait. The thing is, 20 or 30 years ago, the idea of dating someone as old as your mom (or maybe even older) is just ridiculously unacceptable. But today, over the course of the last decade, something must have happened in the mindset of the society that dating a much older woman has become practically normal.

And it has become a life dream of most young guys out there – to be desired and dated by a really hot cougar *meowwrrr*. But it is for the selected lot. If you are one of these guys dreaming of becoming a cougar’s pet, here’s a heads up: to be attractive enough for the more mature women, you have to look like one hot guy with the manners and maturity of your English grand uncle, the intelligence of your ethics professor, and the humor and sense of adventure of Bradley Cooper (and his body too). Cougars have standards on men and dating higher than the standards of at least 15 women in their 20s, combined and magnified by ten times. After all, being a cougar is a chance and a time to have our ideal man in our 20s at our disposal.

Too much to take in? Okay, here’s a short, concise list of what you need to become, what you need to know, and what you need to have to date a true blue cougar. And this might not even be everything.

Woman to be fractionated and seduced

Cougars or mature women are better lovers, or so they say… according to FractionationSeduction.net

How To Date A Cougar – The Africats Method Adapted For Mature Women

  • Look good, smell good, dress well. They are not girls who are looking for men to marry, they are looking for company. Fit the part of the ultimate guy trophy and never be caught dead in loose baggy jeans. Say hi to the tux, the scents, and the shiny shoes. Want to know how to get a girl to fall in love with you? Simple – be dapper.
  • Have enough money to take her out. Sure the cougars are the moneyed women, but you still have to be the man. She does not like McDonald’s and she wouldn’t enjoy the scrappy dance club where most of your college friends go to. She likes bars where she can get her martinis and Moets and Merlots.
  • Bring your etiquette to the table. Don’t leave your manners at home son. Elbows off the table, chew with your mouth closed, don’t talk when your mouth is fall and sip on that drink quietly. You are her date, not her adopted son.
  • Be mature. Cougars are women who have been there, done that, and have seen male immaturity at its ugliest. Do not be needy. Do not send drunk texts. Be independent. She wants a confident, young man so full of life and energy – that’s the kind of youthfulness that will turn her on.
  • Be smart at conversations. Again, cougars want dates, not kids. Conversations are the first step to winning a cougar’s attention and if you cannot talk to her about the ‘sensible’ things in life, I’m sorry please try again.
  • Be confident. Confidence is key to women, cougars or regulars. Carrying yourself well will always be a turn on.

I am not sure what else a cougar wants and needs from her cougar bait but these things are fairly true. After all, these are 20-year old women’s ideal man only magnified and well, the closest thing they can have to perfection! :)

Adrian “Cougar Lover” McKinney (adrian@africats.org)

The Africats Guide To The Flawless Marriage Proposal!

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A brief recap of the blog posts on relationships advice posted so far here by experts from the Africats team:-

Roses almost always win!

Roses almost always win!

Now today we are shifting gears and talk about the marriage proposal! Today’s article is contributed by Susan Morgan, owner of the Susan & Patsy’s Dating Agency which is just right next to the Africats HQ here in Bridgeport. If you have any queries, contact Susan directly at susanmorgandating@yahoo.com.

Ideas on How to Propose to Your Girlfriend (and Make Her Say Yes)

Do you need some ideas on how to propose to your girlfriend and make her say yes? Here are some of the best ways to do so… and we have tested this for years as a matchmaker. :)

  • Creatively use rose petals.

If you live with your girlfriend or know where she lives at the very least, scatter some rose petals on the front lawn that spell out “Marry me?” She is sure to say yes to this.

  • Go on a boat ride.

It might not seem this way at first, but proposing while on a boat happens to be a great way to propose to your girlfriend. If she doesn’t mind jokes and pranks, then take her someplace on a boat and pretend like the boat is stuck. Then, after pretending to struggle with fixing it for a bit, say something like, “I don’t mind getting stranded here forever and living my life with you until I die. Will you marry me?”

  • Hire a plane.

If you have the necessary funds for this method, then you should think about hiring a plane that can spell out your proposal for you. A simple “Marry me?” written in the air is sure to impress your future wife. If you need a contact in Bridgeport on plane hiring, let me know! ;)

  • Make a scrapbook.

This will take some effort, but will definitely be worth it in the end. Basically, just make a scrapbook of your best memories together. Then, near the end of the scrapbook, cut out a shape of a ring in the center of the pages, place the ring in it and when you turn to that particular page together, ask her to be your wife.

  • Plan a treasure hunt.

Planning an extensive treasure hunt would also be a great way to propose. To start, give your girlfriend a clue that isn’t too easy nor too hard. Keep giving her more clues until she reaches the last place, where you are waiting with the ring in your hand.

  • Re-visit the past.

Another great way to propose would be to take your girlfriend to the place where you first met. Once you get there, start reminiscing about the day that you met and then bring out the engagement ring, go down on one knee, and propose.

  • Take her to the beach before sunset.

If you have an accessible beach nearby, take her there before sunset. Enjoy the ride together, play your favorite music and then bring out the ring when the sun is setting and ask her to marry you.

  • Follow tradition.

Naturally, the most classic way to propose to your girlfriend would be to get down on one knee and ask her. As traditional and as predictable as this might sound, it still works most of the time. Of course, using a technique like the October Man Sequence would indeed increase your chances by about 1,000%.

  • Take her out to dinner.

Another classic way to propose would be to plan out a romantic dinner with her at an expensive restaurant and ask a pianist or a violinist to play your song while you are ordering dessert. Then, when the waiter brings out the dish with your order, have him place the ring on it, so you can just take it and pop the question. If you are in the Bridgeport area, check out Two Boots and Taberna Restaurant – tell them that Susan sent you!

 

Africats New Course On Meditation Coming Soon!

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Africats will soon be launching a new course on meditation and specifically using brainwave entrainment. Our members have been complaining about the lack of technical courses on how to merge yoga and meditation in order to attain “alpha state” and silent the mind. We will soon partner up with external experts and gurus (such as the Yoga Institute as well as the good folks from NeuroActivator.com) in order to come up with a good coursework on using brainwave synchronization to aid meditation.

Our training will take two days (refreshments provided), and will cover the following topics:-

As always, we will need feedback from our members in order to come up with a good quality coursework. If you have specific ideas you want to share, then email us at course_feedback@africats.org. We will try our best in coming up with a high quality course which will meet your needs.

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Africats Organization Is Moving Into Its Own Building! (Or, A Primer In Commercial Real Estate Investing)

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ANNOUNCEMENT: We are currently moving into our own building in Bridgeport after much analysis on buying vs renting our own place.

The below piece is written by our CEO James B. Johnston about the thought process that he undertook in order to decide whether to rent or to buy.

We are finally moving into our own property next week!

Without a doubt, it may sound great not to have to write checks for rent every month. The safety of owning a house is sure to make you feel better, too – provided you don’t end up having financial problems because of owning one, that is. Timing and financing programs aside, there are generally a lot of advantages and disadvantages that comes with buying a house, as well.

Here are several points you will need to take into consideration when deciding between buying vs renting:

Buying a home means that you will gain equity if you keep it for a long time. This is probably the most important factor that comes with home ownership. Aside from that, you will also feel a sense of pride and accomplishment for buying one. Plus, you will get to express your personality and style through your home since you will be free to do with it as you please.

Now, here are several financial factors that you will need to take into consideration when deciding between buying vs renting:

When it comes to buying a home, you are placing money into savings with each monthly payment. Conversely, when it comes to renting a home, you are giving money to somebody else as an expense. Also, each time you pay for your mortgage, part of it will go to your equity. This works like a bank account, where you can draw on it when you need to. Plus, the real estate market keeps going up, so home values keep going up, too.

Buying a home comes with various interesting tax benefits, as well. Every interest payment that you make accounts to deduct taxes later on. This is not how it works when paying for rent.

Having said all of that, buying a home definitely sounds better than renting one right now. However, buying simply isn’t for everybody. Remember: everything has its pros and cons, so you will have to think about every factor involved in buying vs renting before making your decision.

Here are the responsibilities that you will need to take into consideration when deciding between buying vs renting, for example:

Buying a home is an investment in terms of time. If you are a home renter, you can move around the country as you wish. If you are a homeowner, you ill need to think about managing leaking pipes, mowing lawns and pruning hedges, amongst other things. This is not a problem if you own a condo in the famous KLCC enclave in Malaysia, for example… but if you are in Bridgeport like us then there could be a problem.

When you are a homeowner, you will also end up spending a lot of money on small home improvements and utilities. However, when you are a renter, you may have to pay for utilities as per your rental agreement.

Thinking about the pros and cons that come with buying vs renting can definitely be a challenge since the aforementioned factors might differ from one person to the next. Aside from your financial condition, you shouldn’t forget to think about your responsibilities in the matter and the overall benefits of each aspect, either. This way, you can make the smartest decision for you in the end. Now with our own place, we can run courses like the Africats Method out of our conference rooms.

Hope you get some benefit from reading this piece. Thank you for reading!

-James B Johnston, PhD (Westminster), CEO, Africats Organization

Mind Games Women Play – How To Play Mind Games With Women

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Editor’s note: this article was written in response to the reader comments to the previous article on love, dating and relationships.

If you are like most guys, then you want to find ways to control your girlfriend. Unfortunately, a lot of women are very hard to read. It can be very hard to play mind games with your girlfriend if she has a mental barrier intact. It can take a lot of practice to break down this mental barrier, but once you do it can pay off in huge ways. As you probably know, every woman is different so you will have to modify the techniques listed below accordingly. If you implement the strategies listed below, you should be able play mind games with any woman that you encounter. So, how can you play mind games with women? You can do this by “hacking” into her brain, and not use brainwave entrainment. Strange, but true.

The hotter a girl gets, the more likely it would be for her to play mind games. Strange, but true!

One game that a lot of men will play on a woman is acting like they are ignoring her. This is a wonderful mind game to play on a woman because it will make her feel like she needs you in her life in order to survive. Women do not like being ignored and being ignored makes them realize how much they need you. If you ignore the woman for a few days and then start paying attention to her again, it will increase her dependence on you. You will be able to exert more power over her because she will realize what could happen if she disobeys.

Overcoming Mind Games – The Africats Approach!

If you do not want to completely ignore her, you can always talk to her in brief sentences. If you know that your girlfriend has a weak mind, talking to her in brief sentences can yield the same results as ignoring her. For a few days, you should only respond when necessary. If she asks you how your day was, respond in one word and do not elaborate. When she asks you a question, never ask her the same question back. The goal of talking to her in brief sentences is to make her understand that she has done something wrong. When she realizes that you are upset with her and tries to do things to fix it, you’ll know that you have a lot of power over what she does. The more worried she is about your behavior, the more power you have over her. And if you want to learn how to flirt with a girl, read this article.

A third way to play mind games with a woman is by comparing her to other women. Women are very conscious of how they are perceived by others. You don’t even have to make a direct comparison in order to make your girlfriend jealous. You can say “your sister is so nice” and your girlfriend will take it as you thinking that she is nice than her. You should start out with subtle comparisons and see how she reacts. The more frustrated you see her getting, the more influence you have over her. If she is upset, it means that she values your opinion and recognizes that you hold power in the relationship. if she doesn’t get frustrated about your comparisons, it means that she doesn’t value your input.

In our next blog article, Africats resident dating guru Charlie McKenzie will give his best advice on how to approach a girl and make her like you.

Improving Relationships & Love Lives (!) – Part 2

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This is a continuation from the last blog post which was seen here. This article is contributed by our Africats program coordinator for Tanzania, Kwabena Osai. More information from Mr Osai – kwabena.osai@africats.org

Now you have picked up the woman you want, the next step is to seduce her.

It seems to be hard especially in this complex world we live in. In fact, it is fairly easy. The Animal Kingdom has shared this knowledge to us eons ago, and you must apply it in your personal life. This is what the Africats training course will help you do.

Go watch some movies with great leaders and their wives, like the ‘Lion King.’ In the Lion King because a lion is considered king, like the ‘alpha male’. You are an alpha male already. All you need to do is act like one. You must be confident, secure, and also fun. This is the essence of the Africats Method that we have covered elsewhere in this website.

You must have a cool set of tools (like James Bond – have you seen the latest 007 flick, Skyfall?). Not just the gimmicky gadgets, but what does James Bond has and women is attracted to him so much? He’s got smart clothes, a clean look, piercing eyes, and a nice car. Women actually never know if you got an expensive suit or a cheap one from WalMart. But the main point here is how you present yourself like an ideal man, and with a correct attitude, you will seduce and win women over easily. You can learn how to get a girl to like you from a master seducer like James Bond for sure.

For the attitude part, below some of the tips that some men shared to us who are masters of seduction.

Tips On Presenting Yourself As The Alpha Man

  • Be the Alpha Male – As mentioned earlier, be the Alpha Male. Go watch National Geographic and watch territorial animals like lions or gorillas. The alpha male takes care of the whole family, secures them, and protects them when in danger. Be strong but sensitive also.
  • Push and Pull Technique – This method is used by master seducers. The simple explanation for this method is that a guy tries to push himself further, giving a notion that a guy likes the woman in a serious way. Then at a certain tipping point, you pull back on your affections to the lady. Sort of like making her ‘breathe’ a little. She will then ask for more of that attention and she will come to you aggressively. This is also called ‘fractionation’ in common hypnosis jargon. Scientists are still researching on this field (Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP) and it is regarded as one of the most effective means of seducing women.
  • Use Your Body – Verbal communication is good but not enough – use body language, and you will build that rapport or emotional connection easily. A simple touch of the hand, and you will know immediately if the girl wants to flirt or not. Being together in a vehicle or some area where both of your bodies are together can make ‘sparks fly’ as they say. Animals do it easily, why can’t we?  This method is proven effective if it is executed at the right moment. The recent presidential debate focused much on body language – an analysis can be seen here – body language deconstructed
  • Be in Control – Again, not sounding to be a sexist here, but try to be in control. Women like that. Even if the woman is a manager of a company, she still needs a man who can satisfy her emotionally. Or at least support her. That is what women want. Love. And love equals security and someone who can rely on – whether you have money or not.

If you need more information on our organizational improvement programs (which goes beyond love and relationships) then get in touch with your local Africats Organization coordinator. Thank you!

Improving Relationships And Love Lives: A Lifelong Mission

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Here at the Africats Organization we are committed to improving the quality of life of mankind, and so we are rolling out programs which touch the multiple aspects of a man’s life: career, relationships, health and money. We are especially concerned with the increased need for men to be good with women, and studies have shown that lots of men tend to struggle when it comes to improving their love lives and relationships with women.

We have thus been receiving lots of queries and requests on programs on dating, love and seduction. In order to fulfill these requests, we have engaged a number of dating teachers and love coaches who will be sharing with you some tips, techniques and tricks that can improve your relationships – and in short – give you the “seduction superpowers” to make a girl like you quickly. Read on to discover what these seduction tactics are and reap the benefits almost immediately…

Improving Relationships: An Africats Mission

Most pickup artists would agree that in order to be good at meeting women, you will first need to overcome your fear of approaching them. This is a bigger problem than you may think. Many guys completely freeze out whenever they see a beautiful woman that they want to pick up. One good way to overcome this fear is to use brainwave entrainment programs (which is something that we have previously highlighted in this blog post). Brainwave entrainment works wonders – so use it.

Secondly, practice trumps theory every time. If you want to be good at any particular skill (and this is not limited to dating and seduction), you will have to work at it until you succeed. Therefore, approach as many women as you can. Bring along a friend to encourage you, and also to observe you from afar. He will then be able to comment on your approach and also give you some hints and tips (especially on body language) which you can use to improve your seduction game.

Hook up with your local “seduction lair” and you will be able to connect with like-minded guys who are also in the game of improving their relationship and love skills. Share your knowledge freely and also help out as much as you can. As they say, what goes around comes around, and this is especially true in the game of dating and seduction.

Those few tips should get you started. If you need more tips and techniques on how to seduce a woman and make her fall in love with you then go here -

http://seductionfaq.org/blog/how-to-seduce-a-woman

Bookmark the page, and refer to it from time to time. That’s what I do, and my love life has improved by leaps and bounds. I really like the folks at The Seduction FAQ (http://www.seductionfaq.org) – they really know their stuff. Improving your love and relationship skills is definitely a worthwhile endeavor. Give it a go!

Good luck, and if you need more programs on dating and love then get in touch with your local Africats Organization coordinator. Thank you!